“I, Paul, write this with my own hand: I will repay it—to say nothing of your owing me even your own self. Yes, brother, I want some benefit from you in the Lord. Refresh my heart in Christ” (Philemon 1:19-20).
Where did this idea that a Christian has no obligations to practice his faith, and may do nothing nor ask for anything, come from? Straight from the pits of hell. It is okay to ask for righteousness’ sake. The worker is worthy his wages. Philemon owes and Paul is collecting for the sake of the church. Let this principle become a part of your thinking. The world thinks everyone selfish. Perhaps we are. The Lord always provides.
Lord let me see that just because someone is demanding something, it means nothing, unless they are righteous in their demand. Show me, with clarity, the difference between selfish and righteous requests. Guide me to learn how to avoid disappointing my heavenly Father. Lead me according to Your goodness to grow in faith and to be thankful for those who have invested themselves in my life and given so that I may receive Your Gospel.
Lord Jesus, You have asked of nothing less than the whole of me to follow You. Keep me from the devilish game of withholding from You even one small piece of who I am. Guide me in Your goodness to learn these things and put them into effect in my life. Help me now and always to look to You, the giver of all good gifts, and by Your example, live out the grace You have given me unto eternal life. Amen.